I love this dress because of the feathered fan nonsense thats going on at the shoulder and also for the crystals that embellish the dress. This Rachel Gilbert evening dress will be amazing on a body like Naa or Lynda, someone with hips that dont lie...for someone like me...ummm we will work on it. Its only $315 so if you have a woman shaped like a coke bottle you think would appreciate this dress, please be my guest and click on the link above.Moving right along, so today's post is going to be short and sweet, partly because I am still very sleepy having had to wake up from my sleep to make an airport run which I thought was in the evening. The good side to this is that now I do not have to leave the house again till Christmas ....YAY!!! Ok so todays topic:
Are humans capable of Love?
I am not going to go into a drawn out story blah blah I just want to know if people believe that humans are capable of love, AGAPE love that is sacrificing and whole. The non selfish love which considers the other before considering oneself. The love that makes you wake up and pray for the other, the love that makes you delete all temptations from your phone books and online accounts so you are never tempted to call them even if they are closer and can provide a quick fix to your "need" that second. A love that is considerate of the others feelings, can say sorry even if you were in the right and the other was in the wrong. A love that can see and try to draw your attention to your flaws not to highlight or embarrass you but to help you work on changing them.
I see all sides of the love coin, some couples who swear they are in love and yet do not know a thing about the other (i mean the big things), some couples who fight so much I wonder when they have time to even be friends, some couples who only speak when there are others around, some couples who are faking it to make it, some couples who are there for convenience etc. etc. etc. I have said many times that I am love's greatest ally and also its biggest cynic and these situations just make me think a lot. Honestly, I do not know if humans can truly love the way I envision love to be/mean. I want to be able to give my all and KNOW and truly KNOW that I am being given someones all...not cause they "think" that is what they should do to move on from a past relationship or what they should do because I am an awesome woman they "think" they could learn to love in time blah blah blah.
Relationships suck! Big time!!! What I am learning, however, is that they can and do work. You know what I am going to say next....Pray pray pray :)...if the person you are with is not meant to be the person you are supposed to be with, prayers will get and see you through it until you find that one for you. NEVER SETTLE. I always say and I believe truly that I would rather be single than with someone who does not truly appreciate my potential. While I am wasting time with your sorry ass, I could have been with someone who truly loves me and only me and wants to be with me. (Yes I am rambling). Ok so in conclusion, learn to LOVE yourself above all the drama the world has to offer. If you are giving your best and getting half assed for any reason at all...WALK!! Life is too short for rubbish, you deserve the best no matter who you are, where you have been and what mistakes you have made...Forget number 2...if you are not number 1 (after God, and family (which you will be a part of) then dump the sorry ass....(man or woman)....Good day!!!
Do we not all have one Father? Did not one God create us? Why do we profane the covenant of our ancestors by being unfaithful to one another? Judah has been unfaithful. A detestable thing has been committed in Israel and in Jerusalem: Judah has desecrated the sanctuary the LORD loves by marrying women who worship a foreign god. As for the man who does this, whoever he may be, may the LORD remove him from the tents of Jacob—even though he brings an offering to the LORD Almighty. Another thing you do: You flood the LORD’s altar with tears. You weep and wail because he no longer looks with favor on your offerings or accepts them with pleasure from your hands. You ask, “Why?” It is because the LORD is the witness between you and the wife of your youth. You have been unfaithful to her, though she is your partner, the wife of your marriage covenant. Has not the one God made you? You belong to him in body and spirit. And what does the one God seek? Godly offspring. So be on your guard, and do not be unfaithful to the wife of your youth. “The man who hates and divorces his wife,” says the LORD, the God of Israel, “does violence to the one he should protect,” says the LORD Almighty. So be on your guard, and do not be unfaithful.
"Dont stay, if you dont want to stay, Baby ill be ok...Believe me when I say imma be alright.."
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